Let it out!

[Ahuaeynjxs]

Any mystery or hypnosis method is about manipulating the DNA of your "target" it is definately very wrong, more than one can imagine because it drags behind you the essence of your dreams and thus manifestations.

Just uphold your duty to truth, tell her what you feel about her and how can you help her help herself with your lucidity, truth truth truth.

Fluid Druid, if I as you I'd try to munch on some amanita caps to fluidify your mucus (maybe 1 gram twice a day, well chewed and mixed with saliva) and I would inhale deeply from the mouth a brine solution made with pink crystal salt (not rock or table salt, sea salt should be ok if not refined it will be grey or reddish) it will burn but eventually you're going to kill the bacteria in there.

There might be other factors involved in you guys problems like mineral defisciency, anything can be healed and I spent the last 5 years with my nose in medical journals to find out unknown and supressed cures for almost anything. Sometimes it requires a more in depth analysis however, but I haven't found one thing that cannot be fixed yet, even cancers can be conquered even if they can't be cured. Sometimes you have to pull all the teeth out of your mouth, but you conquered your cancer at least.

Like did you know 90% of cold viruses incubate in the middle ear ? If you are sensitive enough you can feel your inner ear itch, then use a beneficial bacteria solution or sterile solution with 1% peroxide maybe (don't abuse peroxide kills good bacteria too, but will work in emergency) you gently scrub the middle ear with a Q-Tip, BE VERY CAREFUL. You need to have a minimum of sensitivity to do this so you don't jerk it in your eardrum.

Usually the cold will never manifest symtoms if you do this and have enough vitamin C in your system, if you cannot eat lots of citrus take some ESTER-C (NOT ascorbic acid, its bad for you in long term)

etc etc... maybe I should start a thread, no psychonaut deserves to be sick.

 

[st.bot.32]

psychoid, judging by what you read, you're going to have to be a friend for a while. even if she gets out of the relationship, she will have to get over it (as in, heal, go crazy for a while, enjoy a bit of freedom if she needs it, do whatever she needs to do), there is no way to predict how long that will take. especially if it was a long term relationship. if you did enter into a relationship with her somehow, you'd have to be willing to tread somewhat gently, give her the space she needs, be forgiving and try not to freak out if things don't work out.

This girl has an inferiority complex and likes being a victim in some way, otherwise she would run like hell from this guy.

i have to respectfully disagree (tho i really agree with the rest of your post).. there's no cut-and-dry reason for these kinds of things. love is very powerful, as is attachment, and neither are rational. sometimes people (not to say just girls) stay with their partners because maybe the relationship started off quite differently than it is now and their partner turned into a douche over time, but they still really love their partner. i know girls whom i would consider very strong who went through a lousy relationship and years later still admit they love the person, but just had to get away and stay away because the person (and their attachment to that person) was ruining their life.

lastly.. (and i hate to say this).. but this is from personal experience in similar situations :shock: , it is best to try and step back from these things a little bit IF you are only getting one side of the story (if not, then forget this part). you don't know all the dynamics of their relationship. there's a difference between being a kind, sympathetic ear and a shoulder to cry on. but these are things we learn by doing, living, and making our own mistakes. (sigh) :lol:

 

[Forkbender]

there's no cut-and-dry reason for these kinds of things. love is very powerful, as is attachment, and neither are rational.

True. I didn't mean to say that she made a conscious, rational choice by going into or staying in this relationship. But I do think that, seeing how she is manipulated, she is afraid to not be loved by anyone. She obviously doesn't love herself, otherwise this wouldn't matter. This is probably all subconscious. I think the relationship she is in is a symptom of the underlying issues she has with herself and as long as she does nothing about it, it is only getting worse.

 

[mysticwarrior]

Womans are just complex beings

 

[Forkbender]

Don't even get me started on the men. :roll:

 

[achilless]

I have never had a girlfriend, I'm SICK of being single.

If i where you, i would wait till you found the right girl. The first relationship can be a miraculous thing, so be wise and make the right decisions

That first girlfriend will come one day! Just have patience and try to invest some time in it.

that's probably what everyone is saying him, and not what he would like to hear over and over, I guess... (I've been there as well) plus 'waiting for the right girl', she's not gonna pop out of the floor. (no offence mysticwarrior)
I'd just say that self-confidence and expanding your circle of friends can help a great deal in finding a gf. I myself have had a kind of small depression because of that (and other factors). Medication helped me being more opened to other, more confident of myself, more social. Now it's more a matter of time, but like things were going, I would never have succeeded in finding one.

But still, love is complex thing. Love being part of life, and life being a complex thing; you didn't expected love to be easy, did you ?

peace

 

[Caduceus Mercurius]

I am frustrated and angry, because my girlfriend is planning to go to Africa(Helping children who are handicapped.) for only one month with a good girlfriend :S

It sounds like you're frustrated and angry about something else, because there's nothing unfair about going to Africa with a girlfriend to do humanitarian work. Even her timing doesn't seem to be unreasonable, because the tension between you two is not something recent, if I remember well it has already been going on for a couple of months. Who are you jealous of? Your girlfriend because she's going to Africa while you have to stay home, or her girlfriend for hanging out with her? Or are you afraid she'll have a crush on another guy there?

 

[Caduceus Mercurius]

Where does the site say that they manipulate women?

You're right, it isn't exactly manipulation, it's a very conscious and systematic form of seduction, and should theoretically only work on women who want to be seduced, such as those in a singles bar. Here's a free outline of the Mystery Method.

 

[Carebear]

{the past}

 

[Forkbender]

^elaborate.

@CM: Methods like these are like fishing rods. In the end, people can't do without them. Any method that doesn't make itself unnecessary is just programming.

On topic: I'm actually pretty happy right now. Ain't got a lot to do today and am feeling much better. Peace to all.

 

[Carebear]

{the past}

 

[Caduceus Mercurius]

@CM: Methods like these are like fishing rods. In the end, people can't do without them. Any method that doesn't make itself unnecessary is just programming.

I went through much of the free material (text and videos) today, and concluded that learning these techniques is useful if you want to be single (and dating) for life. It will train you to approach every attractive woman you see, wherever you are, within 3 seconds, and eventually be succesful again and again. There was no suggestion of ever becoming committed or faithful to one of them, in fact to master the skills you're encouraged to "practice them on 12 women every day for at least 4 days a week, for 3,5 years...", until you're a "pick up artist". I don't think that will help anyone develop a sense of commitment.

 

[mysticwarrior]

I am frustrated and angry, because my girlfriend is planning to go to Africa(Helping children who are handicapped.) for only one month with a good girlfriend :S

It sounds like you're frustrated and angry about something else, because there's nothing unfair about going to Africa with a girlfriend to do humanitarian work. Even her timing doesn't seem to be unreasonable, because the tension between you two is not something recent, if I remember well it has already been going on for a couple of months.

To be honest your completly right about what you wrote. It's ridiculous, that i am jealous of it :S

Who are you jealous of? Your girlfriend because she's going to Africa while you have to stay home, or her girlfriend for hanging out with her? Or are you afraid she'll have a crush on another guy there?

I am jealous on everything your wrote here. This terrible feeling started one year ago. We where experiencing a hard period, and then on one day she told me that she loved someone else for a while. It was a colleague from here. She said nothing happend, but something in my hart broke, and since then i have this ridiculous jealous feeling. I did everything i could to get rid of it. But nothing seem to really work. If someone has some advice how to get rid of this ridiculous jealous feeling, i would love to hear it. I am thinking about leaving home for a view weeks.

 

[restin]

I guess the source of this feeling is mistrust towards her. Difficulties in communication? If you are jealous, you think that she is hiding something from you. i think you need to get clean with her...

 

[mysticwarrior]

I guess the source of this feeling is mistrust towards her. Difficulties in communication? If you are jealous, you think that she is hiding something from you. i think you need to get clean with her...

It's exactly what i am thinking. I don't know why, but i have this feeling that more did happen with here and this colleague. She already told me many times, that this wasn't the case. But this thought, that she's something hiding away for me, keeps coming and coming.

 

[Caduceus Mercurius]

I am jealous on everything your wrote here. This terrible feeling started one year ago. We where experiencing a hard period, and then on one day she told me that she loved someone else for a while. It was a colleague from here. She said nothing happend, but something in my hart broke, and since then i have this ridiculous jealous feeling. I did everything i could to get rid of it. But nothing seem to really work. If someone has some advice how to get rid of this ridiculous jealous feeling, i would love to hear it. I am thinking about leaving home for a view weeks.

First you have to decide whether you love and dig your girlfriend enough to fulfill all her emotional and physical needs. If you don't love her with all your heart, then indeed you're in a fragile situation. If you do love her deeply and fulfill her emotional and physical needs, she will communicate to you verbally and nonverbally that you have no reason to be jealous. She's probably not communicating that to you, in fact she's challenging you: "If you don't give me more focused attention, I might 'fall in love' with someone else again." So what restin said, you've got to resolve this with her, and with yourself.

This might help: Anthony Robbins - The Ultimate Relationship Program (Audio)

 

[spice]

mysticwarrior- Have you and her ever done mdma together, and REALLY talked?

Sounds like this may help.

 

[Ahuaeynjxs]

Yeah the burned neurons and the resulting crossed-eye feeling might be just worth it... who knows

No I'm not a sarcastic person... it's true !

Well... ok now what do you want me to write, no pun intended ? Not every truth is meant to be said ?!

I've never seen spice, I dunno how his neurons or his eyes... is that better ?

Stop thinking I'm a mean guy ! :lol:

 

[Ahuaeynjxs]

Oh and BTW stop reading me linearly, you see what it does !

I can personally read a whole page and get 80% in about 5 seconds... yall can do the same !

Linear ... reading... is... for... non-humans...

 

[Caduceus Mercurius]

But having a good talk on or after MDMA can really help. There's no reason to suspect neural damage from such doses.

I can personally read a whole page and get 80% in about 5 seconds... yall can do the same !

It depends on the content of the page, and whether you want to contemplate, enjoy and/or remember what you read.