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Hi Pariah, glad to see you back. I read your post and understand your point of view. I would love to comment on the things you brought up, but I'm going out now and not sure when I'll be online again.
 
Please consider and comment on what I've said - either address the points I've made, or suggest another psychedelics forum I might be interested in.

Pariah we really need guys like you!!! Really, science is not bad at all either are esoteric things. I really admire your view on science, and i also learned from it. I have read a lot topics that you have written and i am sure a lot of people will take there lessons from it. So please stay, and don't visit other psychedelic forums, who knows what you will meet there. I don't want to see you come back after a year, and see that you are converted by aya-wotsits alien race ;) And start attacking us with advanced not scientifically proved spiritual god like weapons :P And if you leave, we will send our Psychonaut GOD, to hunt you down and to put you on some scientifically green socks.

What i always do, and i know not everyone is able to do it and sometimes it get's really difficult. Is just playing "The what if?" game. If i play that game, i just stop reasoning and follow the trail and try to fully understand and feel what a certain member does try to say. Ones i understand, i go back to my own save world and start reasoning. Like i said before, i am not such an intellect person, who knows lot about science. As well i am not an esoteric person who has lost reality. I just like to be able two experience the both sites of the story.

That's also the reason why i where not bothered, with aya-wotsits(God you invented a good name.) saying things from his perspective. Oke, maybe he say that certain things are facts and says he can proof it. And maybe he can, but there will always be enough other theories in science and probably even esoteric viewpoint that could completly contradict with the viewpoint of aya-wotsits.

Around me i see an world which just can be explained by to many theory's, so i never will get stuck on one belief. I use myself as much hypothesis as possible. Since i am started with using hypothesis, i do never reject something because science proof's it's wrong, or an esoteric subject seems to good to be true.

In whole my life i have believed so many things, and if i look back now. I lost the count about how many times i where wrong. Even if we look at science we see, so many contradictions and things that we believed to be true, and then science suddenly changed there viewpoints and found out that there where wrong all the times.

I think we need those people who are devoted to science, and we also need people like aya-wotsits, that are able to completely detach them self's from science and take a look at theory's that are far away for science to be able to proof. Even if an person seems to fall from the earth, because he has been sucked in some esoteric illusion. He will one day wake up, and reconsider everything and could slam his self against the head because he believed something that was to good to be true.

Again, we just need the both opposites. But we need to be aware, that science and esoteric stuff, will always interfere and causes conflict with each other. So we need to stop attacking each other, because someone has an opposite view and start to love his opinion because there is always the possibility that one day the opposite seemed to be true.

I hope i made any sense, i just like all of your theory's no matter if it is science that can be proved or not, or if it is esoteric which can be proved or not. We just need each other, and sometimes need to be more open for other possibility's and just play the "What if game."

I see to many people taking there theory's just to serious, that i already imagine how they try despratly to preach it down on everyone. And i believe that is something, we can't tolerate or make at least clear to someone that he's doing the wrong thing.

Again pariah, i really loved to read your post. Because your a person who can turn things back in logic, you help the people to stay grounded. While aya-wotsits try's to lift someone a little up from the ground, which also can be positive.

I finally think, that the person who can keeps the best balance, and who is able to try as neutral ass possible, will always step between the opposite and are able to compromise between the opposites.
 
CaduceusMercurius a dit:
Hi Pariah, glad to see you back. I read your post and understand your point of view. I would love to comment on the things you brought up, but I'm going out now and not sure when I'll be online again.

I hope you won't stay away for to long ;) But i am not scared for that, i think you have just like some other members, that psychonaut addiction. You really need balls, to fight such an addiction......
 
Pariah a dit:
Esoteric comments have blemished certain subjects that *require* a scientific approach - when talking about drugs / chemistry, misinformation can kill.
True, but the controversy sprung up around Ahuaeynjxs, who actually recommends lowering the dose, and improving one's health by any means possible. This is someone committed to improving his own health and that of others.

Any questions asked about the topics receive incoherent answers,
That isn't exactly true, though I can imagine it has appeared that way to many of you. You really can have a dialogue with him, as more and more members have found out by now.

People taking criticism personally - we're all adults here
Indeed. But don't forget that adults have feelings too. Especially ridicule on a daily basis isn't what I'm logging in for.

On another level I'm talking about the forum in general - as a "functioning" community I think there is a balance required between belief and knowledge -
Do you consider yourself knowledgeable and folks like Ahuaeynjxs believers? Because I don't think this is a matter of faith, unless it is to you.

Forum members have been alienated by aggressive proseltysing of belief.
Can you give examples? What belief exactly? In what way aggressive?

Are we agreed that this alienation is happening?
We'll have to see that in the long run. Many members left the forum to make a statement. Some have already returned, some may be waiting for more involvement from the other administrators in the following days.
 
You really need balls, to fight such an addiction......

there's no way i could win out against such an addiction. a few days away and i'm compulsively logging in :D glad to see lots of others have returned as well.

but i really need to spend less time on the internet. ouch.

there's some really interesting comments here i'd like to add to, maybe later.. (too late in the day right now..)
 
Good your back Pariah , we need rational clear seeing and thinking people like you . I like the way you look at situations and write the situation down neutraly , objectively and exactly .
 
Hey Wotsit , i found this song about you on shittube :-



At that time i used to dress like Bowie , with the same hairstyle but much longer and sprayed silver .

I was looking for a tune about me but i couldnt find one called "Arsehole".......
 
Maybe this one is about you, GOD? :P
 
Pariah, this hardly sounds like aggressive proselytizing of belief to me:
Ahuaeynjxs a dit:
I think my purpose should be clear to you by now, as I said I will not be popular, and my goal is not to be read by many people.

Another of my connected functions is provide information that can be lifesaving, or improve general well being, while challenging the mind to think for itself and corroborate.

I don't care if people read me or not, criticism without constructivism is purely negative in this sense, because not only you are distrupting the natural flow, but people with very simple insights that can make a big difference will also be shy or reluctant to participate because those young geniuses are very sensitive to "flames".
 
My concern throughout all of this has mainly been the flaming:

Flaming is a hostile and insulting interaction between Internet users. Flaming usually occurs in the social context of a discussion board, Internet Relay Chat (IRC) or even through e-mail. An Internet user typically generates a flame response to other posts or users posting on a site, and such a response is usually not constructive, does not clarify a discussion, and does not persuade others. Sometimes, flamers attempt to assert their authority, or establish a position of superiority over other users. Other times, a flamer is simply an individual who believes he or she carries the only valid opinion. This leads him or her to personally attack those who disagree. In some cases, flamers wish to upset and offend other members of the forum, in which case they can be called "trolls". Most often however, flames are angry or insulting messages transmitted by people who have strong feelings about a subject.

Some equate flaming with simply letting off steam, though the receiving party may be less than pleased. Similarly, a normal, non-flame message may have elements of a flame -- it may be hostile, for example -- but it is not a flame if its author seriously intends to advance the discussion.
Though I agree some 'flames' (like sarcastic comments) are intended to further the discussion, there's often also an element of "laughing at" involved (ridicule), which only digresses from any serious discussion.
 
I ridicule myself very often . And i think if people ridicule its mostly about the things people say and not the person themselves. I cant remember anyone ridiculeing anyone unless they have made themselves ridiculos first .
 
Yeah god, those were the days huh ? You lucky son of a woman !

If I was born back then however I would have been terminated for being so blunt.

Have you even read the lyrics ? :P

I had posted them in the thread where we ended up posting alot of bowie songs...

It's funny I see the same things pop up, you guys forgot easily that when we posted them back when things were getting chaotic, that they were really meaningful and synchronistic, or did you just go over it ?
 
GOD a dit:
I ridicule myself very often . And i think if people ridicule its mostly about the things people say and not the person themselves. I cant remember anyone ridiculeing anyone unless they have made themselves ridiculos first .

I have to fully agree with you. A view years ago i did read something about what you are saying. I have ridiculed a LOT people in my life. No one could do the things right, and i blamed to world about almost anything that did go wrong in my life. But then i where reading that article, and i realised how much i projected my own problems on the world around me.

Since then i try to be as conscious about it as i can, and if am starting to ridicule someone or something, then i directly give myself a hit in my face ;) It's just that you only recognise in others, what you recognise within yourself. I am not sure anymore, but i think that was exact what the article i read, explained in details.
 
Mara a dit:
Ahuaeynjxs a dit:
Mara and CM made it last night... I'm quite impressed ; did you talk to her about all this bro ?

??? :shock:

What is this about?

Ahua is a gambler.

He dropped this comment, it'd have been forgotten as long as you two never come back to each other. If you two would ever fall back into each other as a couple, he brings his quote up and adds that he got the message already through the sun while living ahead of science and each of us.

But looking up the pics of you both as a couple, and knowing that Ivar is full of forgiveness in the long-term and passionated about love itself, I'd say based on my intuition, the chance that he and you will find each other yet again is real in the future.
 
Brugmansia a dit:
But looking up the pics of you both as a couple, and knowing that Ivar is full of forgiveness in the long-term and passionated about love itself,
I don't think Mara did anything that would require my forgiveness, nothing whatsoever. I had been struggling with the choice of being with someone I loved and being completely free to rectify the situation that was going seriously out of control between my children and their mother, as well as to close my store and move out of this place. Some progress has been made in all areas, with some unsuspected turns of events like the healing and the forum upheaval, though I have changed my mind (I think) about moving out of this place (I live in Woerden, not Amsterdam). I just need to figure out a way to make more profitable (and fun) use of the shop. It's steady though. Regarding my passion for love, it's there, but there's also my passion for learning and my tendency to really like seclusion a lot. I don't think any woman will ever be happy with me, especially not while my children are growing up.
 
I now have to hold my shaking hands in order not to write something really bitchy and full of anger. Why do you think CM needed to forgive me?! Fuck!

I have been torn apart, felt like shit for the last couple of months and it still isn't completely healed. It was not my decision to break up, although I could never go back again. CM knows how I think about it all, and I won't say anything more, as I think it would't be fair to spill out our private life on this forum.

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I've never felt more loved, understood and accepted by anyone than you. I'll cherish my memories of you for the rest of my life. For my part I do hope we'll be back together again one day, when the time and circumstances are right. Because I do think we match, I just don't have the peace of mind right now to be the lover you deserve. :cry:

as I think it would't be fair to spill out our private life on this forum.
True, but since we shared our happy times with everyone, I think it's also fair to talk about the sadness.
 
Brugmansia a dit:
Ahua is a gambler.

He dropped this comment, it'd have been forgotten as long as you two never come back to each other. If you two would ever fall back into each other as a couple, he brings his quote up and adds that he got the message already through the sun while living ahead of science and each of us.
I don't understand your reasoning here. That "we" visited him in his lucid dream space (or something like that) has no predictive value whatsoever.

But looking up the pics of you both as a couple, and knowing that Ivar is full of forgiveness in the long-term and passionated about love itself, I'd say based on my intuition, the chance that he and you will find each other yet again is real in the future.
Here you are making a prediction, though not an absolute one ("a real chance") and thus a gamble, exactly what you accuse him of.
 
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