Forkbender a dit:zezt a dit:Look, say your dad, uncle, friend, had told you they had seen a video of a man being slaughtered, and the experience had deeply upset them. And then they say how someone said what GOD said. What would you think? How would you feel. Would you patroniize them and make out that they hadn't really been insulted? Would you defend the person that had said that abuse to your dad?
Who are you trying to kid, kiddo?
Who's patronizing here?
You, because you act like child. Also, heard the expression 'you cant kid a kidder', kiddo?
[quote:16gcf9o3]I don't know about you, but if something deeply moves me and someone makes a remark about it that conflicts with my experience or suggests it was different, I don't really care. My feelings are mine and I don't care what someone I don't personally know (like you and GOD) thinks or says about it.
That is not the point. And up to now you haven't answered my question to you. You are dodging it.
AND also we are talking about the rules of this forum? 'No abuse'. Not---you dictating what abuse must mean, as though another person doesn't know. Or you must 'take it like a man' or whatever. You are just moving goalposts and not doing your job properly.
If you feel insulted by something, should we change everything so you feel comfortable? And the next time? And the next? This isn't your world alone, zezt, it is everybody's and we are bound to get some insults along the way. It is up to you to take things personally or not.
So dont have rules. Take down your rule guide, because they mean nothing,,,,,,obviously. Well, according to you they dont. Don't pretend to have rules and then fuck around when a member here come to you with stuff you SHOULD deal with.
A man came to the buddha to see if what people said was true. He was insulting him and yelling in his face. The buddha just sat there. The next day, he tried again, shouting harder and saying more offensive things. The buddha just sat there with an everlasting smile on his face. The third day he tried again, shouting his lungs out and yelling and screaming and using all the horrible words he could think of. The buddha just sat there. Then at the end of the day he asked the buddha what was up. The buddha said: "If you give a person a gift and he doesn't accept it, to whom does the gift belong?"
Right I see oh master. Thank you for the lesson............not
Why not take down your rules and put that in its place. Then if anyone complains of abuse by another member, you just copy and paste it?
[quote:16gcf9o3]Are you without any sense?
Please stop insulting me!![/quote:16gcf9o3][/quote:16gcf9o3]
So now your takin the piss as well. Rubbing salt into the wound?
Please answer the question I asked Forkbender?