BrainEater
Banni
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- 21/7/07
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hi all!!
i am talking about the people, that are basically a split personality. what they do is spending a lot of energy into
pretending how the world and everything is alright, while they deep inside know that it's not. i suppose it's maybe
an enforced indoctrination by society or something like that. it makes them identify with the ego-mind so much,
that they can't truly feel themselves and the world and hence have so much suffering in them accumulated, that they
almost seem to have to project their ego-mind and negativity that comes with it on the world, other people, etc etc...
i have noticed this kind of thing in myself and in others and it made me very sad...
in my opinion, the reason for it is most likely to be found in childhood, because the experiences we make then and how we make these, define the concept of experience, that we will make the rest of our lives... well we do make changes to it, but the basis of it mostly seems to be formed as children... and if we remember that and how we were once childs, we would also remember how reality and life are themselves probably like a psychedelic experience or a dream...
so i guess what i am getting at is that at some point of our lives we start to identify with the transient appearances of
our beings so much, that we get ensnared by the conditions/conditionings of them. it seems to me we should be aware,
that it's not possible and most probably not beneficial to try to condition the infinite, that the source of every being is.
but since in the so called "modern and civilised" western society it seems to be pretty common to reduce people to
their (supposed) function, it would also make sense that people compulsively do that to themselves also.
i say you can't judge someone until you have lived their life.
it appears to me also that the not-acceptance of that fact, leads to compulsive, mostly social (or rather anti-social?)
behaviour.
they don't know who they are, hence they don't know what they are doing, so pay attention and stay aware to
protect your energy from such vampires. but still try to distinguish between needless and exagerated paranoia, that create vicious cycles of fear or even fear of the fear (lol easier said than done but try it, just observe yourself as much as you can)....
the thing is, that they don't know better (that's why we should forgive them), so it seems all they do is to produce suffering,
but that is not entirely negative at all. suffering can and should be used for enlightenment instead of just using it
to multiply the suffering. maybe possibly it's like making mistakes and since you can learn from mistakes they have a very positive aspect, too. think about if you didn't make a certain mistake, would you then also been able to learn a certain possibly very important
thing??? basically it boils down to that you could see anything as an opportunity to learn. the ability or disability to do so,
defines the positivity of the experience of the past, present and future. if you ask me it's very important to be able
to laugh about yourself in order to not take the world or yourself too seriously too much. and if you can laugh about yourself,
you then also don't need anyone else to laugh about, if you want to laugh, lol.... :lol:
discuss please i think it's a very actual and interesting topic.
peace
i am talking about the people, that are basically a split personality. what they do is spending a lot of energy into
pretending how the world and everything is alright, while they deep inside know that it's not. i suppose it's maybe
an enforced indoctrination by society or something like that. it makes them identify with the ego-mind so much,
that they can't truly feel themselves and the world and hence have so much suffering in them accumulated, that they
almost seem to have to project their ego-mind and negativity that comes with it on the world, other people, etc etc...
i have noticed this kind of thing in myself and in others and it made me very sad...
in my opinion, the reason for it is most likely to be found in childhood, because the experiences we make then and how we make these, define the concept of experience, that we will make the rest of our lives... well we do make changes to it, but the basis of it mostly seems to be formed as children... and if we remember that and how we were once childs, we would also remember how reality and life are themselves probably like a psychedelic experience or a dream...
so i guess what i am getting at is that at some point of our lives we start to identify with the transient appearances of
our beings so much, that we get ensnared by the conditions/conditionings of them. it seems to me we should be aware,
that it's not possible and most probably not beneficial to try to condition the infinite, that the source of every being is.
but since in the so called "modern and civilised" western society it seems to be pretty common to reduce people to
their (supposed) function, it would also make sense that people compulsively do that to themselves also.
i say you can't judge someone until you have lived their life.
it appears to me also that the not-acceptance of that fact, leads to compulsive, mostly social (or rather anti-social?)
behaviour.
they don't know who they are, hence they don't know what they are doing, so pay attention and stay aware to
protect your energy from such vampires. but still try to distinguish between needless and exagerated paranoia, that create vicious cycles of fear or even fear of the fear (lol easier said than done but try it, just observe yourself as much as you can)....
the thing is, that they don't know better (that's why we should forgive them), so it seems all they do is to produce suffering,
but that is not entirely negative at all. suffering can and should be used for enlightenment instead of just using it
to multiply the suffering. maybe possibly it's like making mistakes and since you can learn from mistakes they have a very positive aspect, too. think about if you didn't make a certain mistake, would you then also been able to learn a certain possibly very important
thing??? basically it boils down to that you could see anything as an opportunity to learn. the ability or disability to do so,
defines the positivity of the experience of the past, present and future. if you ask me it's very important to be able
to laugh about yourself in order to not take the world or yourself too seriously too much. and if you can laugh about yourself,
you then also don't need anyone else to laugh about, if you want to laugh, lol.... :lol:
discuss please i think it's a very actual and interesting topic.
peace
i follow you BrainEater. it can be sad to look around and see the unconsciousness in people all of the time. but really this is a matter of perspective. one could also be happy for having the awareness to see this in the first place instead of being absorbed into it. 
good answers... made me reconsider some shit in a good way... 
