Having troubles purveying the up sides to psychedelics.

[Bighead]

Hi all

I am not going to make this a long post but rather keep it short and sweet. A loved on of mine is outright forbidding me from doing any psychedelics, if I do venture into this territory said love one will leave and not look back.

I am however a well established user of all substances psychedelic and am having trouble explaining to said loved on that I am not doing this to get fucked, am not going to freak out, am not going to go insane and end up in hospital which said loved one thinks will happen.

How does one approach a person that is so set in their views of anything psychedelic (thinks it's a DRUG, will turn you to the dark side, makes you crazy eyed and whatnot)

I however will continue with my plans for future experiences as I need them to journey into parts of my mind that need serious visiting.

Any posts will be much appreciated.

many thanks,

Bighead



PS: strangest thing of all is that this person is an ex user of substances albeit not psychedelic ones.

 

[user_1919]

Seems like she(I think at least) was a former user of hard substances and has got caught in the loop of classifying all drugs under one catagory. I can't really give you any direct advice, but if I was in the situation, which I don't recommend you do, I would just tell her simply, "This is who I am, accept it, or else I will leave you". I don't want to have anyone control my life, and when that starts to happen, she can't be the one for you. The one for you would accept you for who you are, rather than try to mold you into her perfect mold. Anyways, good luck!

PEACE & LOVE

 

[druglessdouglas]

im not great for advise on relationships im afraid. psychedelics have always come first and ive never gone into a relationship with someone who was against them, i doubt id have a lot to talk about with someone not interested in the nature of reality

 

[Meduzz]

@drugless, it's still good advice: bighead should choose between his loved one or psychedelics.

And as I don't believe psychedelics are necesary to lead a good life, I'd choose the loved one. Remember: things change, it could be your loved one in time allows you to do psychedelics, or when the relationship is done.

 

[user_1919]

I don't see it as a chose between loved one and psychedelics, rather a choice between being lead or choosing your own life path. I could see if he got a girlfriend before having tried psychedelics, but the girlfriend came after. Since the girlfriend came after, she is trying to change who he is. I would stay stick with what's in your heart. If you truly have a passion for psychedelics, then don't let anything else get in your way. Just please don't let anyone else warp your decisions, make your own...

PEACE & LOVE

 

[GOD]

The loved one first , you dont want to loose them . Talk about it with them ask them to explain their opinion / feelings and ask them what they know about it . But dont be pushy . The loved one is for life and you have time . You can take the drugs later , and / or in another place / time .

 

[magickmumu]

If it makes you crazy, how come you're not. I am not crazy, are you????
Turn the whole thing on it's ass.
Do you think I am crazy.
:lol: aranoid:

people drive you crazy, not psychedelics. :lol:

 

[Bighead]

Hi guys

Thanks for all the advice.

I think the best for me would be too continue my journeys in time. I have told her (yes it is a her, a fiance to be exact) that I will not to controlled but if she does not want me to do it then I will respect her wishes. But I have also told her that I will be continuing my research of the mind at a later stage when she has calmed down and has stopped being so narrow minded.

Hope this time comes quickly though, at the moment I am living the NORMAL lifestyle of most average citizens, and this is not me and I do not know how much longer I can wear a suit every day, if you know what I mean.

Thanks everyone.

 

[Forkbender]

I am however a well established user of all substances psychedelic and am having trouble explaining to said loved on that I am not doing this to get fucked, am not going to freak out, am not going to go insane and end up in hospital which said loved one thinks will happen.

Here's your answer. You are not fucked up, you didn't freak out, you didn't go insane or end up in the hospital. QED.

If she doesn't want to listen, I think she hasn't really dealt with her own substance abuse issues from the past. Good luck with this.