Having children.

[sunshroom]

For me, having children seems really egoistic thing. This because, theres really no consediration with the point that the individual going to born in this world might not really want't it. I know that there isn't no one who could want or not want something before birth, but you get my point, I think. Am I really off?

 

[Jeniger]

Why would someone not want to be born in this world and explore the psyche and nature? I think if one looks good around him its all too fascinating for words. Also it's a matter of how u experience the world around u. Creating your own reality.

 

[Caduceus Mercurius]

Birth is inevitable. ;-)

 

[Brugmansia]

Well, it's entirely subjective and making any unshakable statement about reproduction in general is indirectly an intervention in one's universe and inner perspective.

Ever since I can remember I strongly discouraged myself to put my genes through. I consider myself as the last and perfect symbiosis of my blood line and biological chain, one who entirely loves himself, who feels the empathy in every nerve, humility and no longer the need to act vigourously, the march within the external composition will end with me being the last grain. An androgynous shell.

I consider capitulation as the greatest discovery of my existance.

 

[Caduceus Mercurius]

For me, having children seems really egoistic thing. This because, theres really no consediration with the point that the individual going to born in this world might not really want't it. I know that there isn't no one who could want or not want something before birth, but you get my point, I think. Am I really off?

Your question is based on the assumption that one comes into being at birth, rather than existing forever, with the birth process being a regular renewal of the physical carrier. The individual going to be born in this world will want it, because it's the nature of individuals to desire life. We just don't like suffering, but suffering is never constant, and there are ways to appreciate and transcend suffering. Giving birth to a child is a chance to assist that being in developing and attaining a level of awareness and bliss it may have never experienced before.

But for sure would-be parents should know what they're getting themselves into, and should take the job very seriously. Doing a sloppy job of nurturing, raising, educating and initiating a child will create adolescents and adults that regret being born.

 

[IJesusChrist]

I used to think that.

Then I became dumber. I want to be a father, to take care of a kid, and pass on happiness and euphoria to a creature of my purest creation.

I really don't think like that, I think man it would be cool to have something to be proud of, and be proud of me, to build of eachother, and not be lonely, to love something.

I used to think: I hate the human race, why bring another, I have bad genes, why risk bringing in another?

Now I'm just that guy that is wondering what it would be like to be a Dad.

 

[ur_friend]

For me, having children seems really egoistic thing. This because, theres really no consediration with the point that the individual going to born in this world might not really want't it. I know that there isn't no one who could want or not want something before birth, but you get my point, I think. Am I really off?

yes u r really off & u need start looking at the postive side of things


lol

 

[viljo]

id really like to have a son one day, but im not in the right financial situation not one that's needed, also I don't like giving up my time very easily. I have noticed this when looking after my nephews, I need to get my arse into gear and start taking things a lot more serious before I have a kid.