Dodgy Partys

[GOD]

I like dodgy partys . Whats a dodgy party ? I supose everyone has their own definition . I mean exotic ones . Not the normal cocktail party . Partrys like the freakers ball . But where there is no having to do anything . If you want to OK , if not OK . I like it when all colours , all cultures , homosexuals , transwestites , all sorts of wierdos , pimps , dealers and gangsters are there . I`ve been to wife swapping partys and sex partys and rolled all the joints and got everyone beamed . The best ones have a room for the party it self and then maybe an orgie room wher people can have fun in private . That no one feels watched and no one watches . Usualy there are private rooms where people can do their own thing .

How do you like your partys ? Whats your preferene ? What was the best party you ever went to ? ( I dont mean goa discos ) . If you were able to make a party how would you want it to be ?

 

[Arcticpheonix]

I'd have to say that my personal preference would be something like what you described. "...all cultures , homosexuals , transwestites , all sorts of wierdos , pimps , dealers and gangsters are there ." Something where anyone and everyone is welcome, where you could find any drug you could ever want, and yet still feel like no one would try to harm you or disrupt your experience.

 

[Carebear]

Oldskool Gabber party!

 

[druglessdouglas]

I like dodgy partys . Whats a dodgy party ? I supose everyone has their own definition . I mean exotic ones . Not the normal cocktail party . Partrys like the freakers ball . But where there is no having to do anything . If you want to OK , if not OK . I like it when all colours , all cultures , homosexuals , transwestites , all sorts of wierdos , pimps , dealers and gangsters are there . I`ve been to wife swapping partys and sex partys and rolled all the joints and got everyone beamed . The best ones have a room for the party it self and then maybe an orgie room wher people can have fun in private . That no one feels watched and no one watches . Usualy there are private rooms where people can do their own thing .

How do you like your partys ? Whats your preferene ? What was the best party you ever went to ? ( I dont mean goa discos ) . If you were able to make a party how would you want it to be ?

i dont get invited to any other sort of party

 

[Carebear]

i dont get invited to any other sort of party

Me neither... I`d have to be real f**ked up on something to join anyway
Could be hmm nice...

 

[magickmumu]

I don't visit Dodgy party's
I like free party's, and raves.

 

[braha_kahn]

I prefer parties where they build up the music... starting with some chilly ambient/idm then a little bit harder with some jungle or acid and then for the finishing touch some RAW HARD/BREAKCORE

I also enjoy new/oldskool goaparties

 

[phatass]

Junglist MASSIVE Drum n Bass parties!!!! :twisted:

 

[????????]

reading this made me remember how i felt after my serious attempt at transcending normal states of consciousness and basically seeing really what a proper life changing, intense psychedelic experience would be like. i fasted for 3 days and ate 3 blotters at noon in the fourth **warning: i'm not planning on doing it again anytime soon, if you know what i mean (i'm thinking of young readers, careful preparation beforehand is a must). i had varying degrees of success, it was a bittersweet day, that one. after the obscure, emotionally charged and self centered part of the trip was over i just felt like i wanted to have all my friends in my house and throw a dodgy party! (parents were out of town). i just thought of having nice music and a generous supply of alcoholic beverages plus some cannabis, and i don't know, just watch them have a nice time and hopefully, me too. of course i never got *all* my friends here but some i did and fun times were had by all.

does anyone else get horny with lsd after the peak? after my peak was over and i had a bath and put some clothes on and so on, i was literally using all my brain power in generating a plausible plan for me to deploy in order to get this girl i hanged around with to my house and promptly persuade her to have sex with me. (i tried later, no luck.. )

 

[ararat]

my favourite party so far was definitely holi, the festival of colors in pushkar, india.
it's the celebration of the beginning of spring, and everybody would just get out in the streets, throwing colors of any sort at each other. ok, not everybody, mostly indian men and male tourists, also some brave female tourists. that's because indian men use the opportunity to touch the women wherever they want...
apart from this it's fucking awesome. it's so much fun, everybody is covered in any color imaginable (it was mostly puple though.), outside, having fun, drinking bhang lassis en masse, dancing.
in pushkar they even had speakers outside at a little place, and the played really good psytrance (the kind I love at parties but can't find to buy/download) which was AWESOME, to say the least. I was really surprised, but it's a tourist place after all. a nice one though.
also I got to known to a nice girl there

did I mention that everybody was covered in colors?

 

[st.bot.32]

i like going to industrial, punk, metal parties etc body ritual events as well on occasion.. dodgier is better for me as well

it's weird, i love electronic music and listen to tons of it, but lots of electronic music parties bore me. i end up having to get trashed to enjoy them. although secret all night raves can definitely be fun.. those tend to be dodgier parties

 

[Caduceus Mercurius]

does anyone else get horny with lsd after the peak?

Yes, at the end of my LSD and mushroom trips I've always felt quite sensual.

I haven't been to any dodgy parties though, nor to any regular disco or festival, and have only spent about three and a half hours at a Goa party last year. So I still have a lot to explore in that regard.

 

[st.bot.32]

Yes, at the end of my LSD and mushroom trips I've always felt quite sensual.

Same, for LSD anyway, I often have experiences like that later in the trip. Weed likewise, if I haven't smoked it in a while and take a heroic dose, my senses can be amplified every bit as much

I don't tend to think about it so much though. That makes it far more intense when it just happens as part of the trip (for me anyway)

 

[Caduceus Mercurius]

Just now I came across a German (?) phenomenon called kuschelparty ("hugging party"). Anyone ever been to one? I see one can even become a kuscheltrainer.

http://www.kuschelparty.com/index.php

:goodman:

 

[Tunnelvision]

 

[Brugmansia]

Yes, at the end of my LSD and mushroom trips I've always felt quite sensual.

Yeah, I noticed my skin is also way more sensitive. They way you feel your clothes, the way you feel your breath, and just a fresh, earthy soft feeling in general. While sensual is often used in context with sexuality, I believe sensual is just sophisticated awareness of senses, as a logical result, one seeks bonding with pleasureable stimulation. Often resulting in erotica.

But it is in no way comparable with looking for stimulation at dodgy parties.

 

[GOD]

Geting realy blasted and haveing a shag is my idea of fun .

 

[Brugmansia]

What about some alcohol and coke then?

 

[Nina_is_alive]

I don't think I have been to a wide varaity of parties
but I'd like to see it all
and weird Dodgy parties sound very fun perhaps

I like parties that let me get a little lost
and let me feel warm and free
you know
the kind where everyone feels good and there is some adrenaline in the air
haha
sorta kinda

if that makes the least amount of sense

 

[Caduceus Mercurius]

What about some alcohol and coke then?

That's the thing. I've heard about after-parties turning into orgies, but invariably coke was used during such adventures. And practically all one-night-stands involve alcohol. Since I've more or less vowed never to do coke, or become drunk again, it's unlikely I'll ever get involved in such sexual celebrations. I never kissed or slept with anyone I didn't already know for months. And never had intercourse on the first night either. Since the intensity of physical arousal grew slowly rather than suddenly, all relationships lasted several years (with ups and downs of course), and I never felt particularly needy during my times of being single. So I guess it's one or the other: long term relationships or dodgy parties. Except for the psychedelic experience I'm wary of any type of intense enjoyment, because I rarely see them produce good fruits. The fruits of orgiastic parties are sexually transmitted diseases (including the ones spread by kissing such as herpes labialis etc.), addictions (coke, alcohol, sex, nicotine) and hangovers.

The Bhagavad-gita divides everything in life (people, mental states, activities etc.) into three categories: sattva, rajas en tamas, the three gunas or strands of nature. Sattva means goodness or truth, rajas means passion and tamas means ignorance, darkness or inertia. There's one verse in particular which explains the difference between happiness in sattva-guna as opposed to happiness in raja-guna and tamo-guna. The happiness of sattva-guna is described as "poison in the beginning but nectar in the end", whereas the happiness of rajas gives the nectar first, but ends with poison.

The poison of sattva is the 'pain' of self-restraint and self-discipline, with the nectar being fruits like love, illumination and joy. The nectar of rajas is the instant gratification of the senses, such as the excitement of sex, booze or a cocaine rush, with the poison being diseases, hangovers, addictions and depression. Tamas is described as providing poison in the beginning and poison in the end. I guess that applies to church services, but it might be the authors of the Bhagavad-gita had something else in mind.

It's a nice passage, so I'm quoting it here (with some corrections):

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Chapter 14

Material nature consists of the three modes--goodness, passion and ignorance. When the living entity comes in contact with nature, he becomes conditioned by these modes.

The mode of goodness involves purity, illumination and ethics. Those situated in that mode become bound to knowledge and happiness.

The mode of passion is born of unlimited desires and longings, and because of this one is bound to work.

The mode of ignorance causes the delusion of all living entities. Those in this mode become bound to madness, indolence and sleep.

The mode of goodness conditions one to happiness, passion conditions him to the fruits of action, and ignorance to madness.

The manifestations of the mode of goodness can be experienced when all the gates of the body are illuminated by knowledge.

When there is an increase in the mode of passion, the symptoms of great attachment, uncontrollable desire, hankering, and intense endeavor develop.

When there is an increase in the mode of ignorance, madness, illusion, inertia and darkness are manifested.

By acting in the mode of goodness, one becomes purified. Works done in the mode of passion result in distress, and actions performed in the mode of ignorance result in foolishness.

From the mode of goodness, knowledge develops; from the mode of passion, greed develops; and from the mode of ignorance, foolishness, madness and illusion develop.

When the embodied being is able to transcend these three modes, he can become free from birth, death, old age and their distresses and can enjoy nectar (amrita) even in this life.

Chapter 18:

That which in the beginning may be just like poison but at the end is just like nectar and which awakens one to self-realization, is said to be happiness in the mode of goodness.

That happiness which is derived from contact of the senses with their objects and which appears like nectar at first but poison at the end is said to be of the nature of passion.

And that happiness which is blind to self-realization, which is delusion from beginning to end and which arises from sleep, laziness and illusion is said to be of the nature of ignorance.

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So my type of party would have to be sattvic, if possible.